missing Mom a bit

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It's been several years since Mom passed and I've been putting off cleaning her things out of the house.
I gathered up her clothes a long time ago and sent them off with some friends to a mission church in West Va. But all of 'HER Things' have been sitting.
My sister and I tackled her 'craft room' this past Saturday. It was an all day memory quest. We laughed a lot, cried a little & packed up her car FULL of stuff to take home or drop at the donation site.
I brought home a couple of boxes of things and spend most of yesterday afternoon 'decorating'.
This is one of those old $5 wardrobe trunks from a yard sale this past summer. The hanging quilt was pieced together by my grandmother when she was a young girl. She made the blocks, but never finished it. Mom sewed the blocks together to make the top and put a backing on it just a few years before she passed. The cookie tin (and 2 of the drawers in the trunk) are filled with her sewing 'notions'. She made the 2 dolls. There is a spaghetti sauce jar full of buttons that I remember playing with as a child. The little wooden box of drawers was made by her father. The metal pitcher (and a few other matching pieces that we didn't find) sat on a shelf in her kitchen under a giant wooden hanging fork and spoon for as long as I can remember. It's now full of her knitting needles.
The mirror came from my Grandmother's house. It's just a cheap plastic frame but I remember it hanging in her dining room over a book shelf FULL of Readers Digest Condensed Books. It's been sitting in a closet for years but I thought that it looked just right for that spot.
The quilt poking out of the drawer was rescued from a barn years and years ago. It's pretty ragged and REEKED of cat pee when I first found it. I don't know anything about it's history, but it goes well with Grandmother's quilt so now it has a place to live and be displayed too.

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I know the feeling. 9 years for me. Only last summer did I start. Start is the key word. Gave their household and garage things I didn’t want to good will. Couldn’t stay there.
 

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It sounds like you and your sister were able to do that together without fighting, that's a blessing right there.

That' a lot of pleasant memories. It looks nice.

We had sort of a running joke going all day. One of us would find something and say "Hey! Look at this!!! Wanna fight?"
 

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:hugs Thanks for sharing that Cane. It's nice to have things that a loved ones hands have handled. You made a really nice memory corner.

It was necessary that my sister and I had to go through mom and dads house soon after they died, and they died so close together in time....56 days. It was hard, everything was so raw and overwhelming. Lots of tears shed there.

We each have some mementos that have treasured memories attached. One of my most treasured is dads old wooden step ladder. It has layers of paint spatters that are like a family history of the houses we lived in that dad painted. I wonder often how many thousand times dads feet went up and down those old rungs.
 

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