Interesting chart, Steve. The distances are interesting. I've never worried about tomatoes planted next to each other, even growing mixed on the trellis, and hardly ever have a problem. Last year, one Japanese Black was obviously a cross, but that is the only problem I've had in recent memory. Would you think that the difference in the cross ones using insects are different because of the different insects that are pollinators for them?
Steve is correct. You need to look up the scientific name to see if you might have a problem with squash and pumpkins. Those might cross with zucchini, winter squash, yellow summer squash, cucumbers, gourds, or pumpkins. Saving seeds from any of these can be risky. I found this bit that might help.
The female flowers of each crop can be fertilized only by pollen from male flowers of the same species. Cross pollination, however, can occur between varieties within a species. Cross pollination can be seen in the squashes and pumpkins. Summer squash, pumpkins, gourds, and some types of winter squash belong to the same plant species Cucurbita pepo. All species members may cross with one another. Thus, an acorn squash will cross pollinate with a zucchini or a miniature gourd. However, muskmelon (Cucumis melo) and cucumbers (Cucumis sativus) belong to different species and will not cross with each other or members of the Cucurbita genus.
If your melons are cantaloupe, they will not cross with the watermelon. Id think other varieties of melon might. Again, you would have to know specifics.
The beans and peas have perfect flowers, which means the flowers have both the male and female parts. Insects can carry pollen from one flower to another and cause cross-pollination, but usually the flower pollinates itself. The wind can shake the flower enough to cause pollination. Sometimes an insect buzzing around pollinates by shaking the flower so the pollen falls down and pollintes the flower instead of the insect carrying the pollen, but there is some risk even if they are separated more than the recommended distances. Im guessing but Id think the rarity of a pollinator carrying pollen and visiting another plant that far away are so rare it makes the risk acceptable even to commercial seed companies. Tomatoes and peppers work the same way.