Sorry if this has been asked before, but I dont see how to search the forums on this website. Anyway this is my 1st year growing Zucchini I have quite a few growing that have flowers on the ends, I have one zucchini thats not that big at all but the flower died off, do you pick it after the flower dies off or when its a certain size? I keep reading online that you pick it when its 6-8 inches long some sites say 11-12, so does the flower have nothing to do with it? Thanks