A dream and something weird

[Gardening with Rabbits]

I'm glad that you can reach out to others with information about your world. You are showing love.

Some adjustments are difficult. And, they involve many things, not just what we can get down in a text box or on a paper in a lawyer's office. Some things are as hard as basalt or as weak as ash or as fluid as rainwater.

There is something so right about demanding of the universe that there be clarity. There is also a right of self-care - an attention to personal welfare and a self-directed kindness. That isn't likely to involve facts, as some might identify them.

Even those who are deeply knowledgeable about one or two things in the universe will admit that knowledge opens up more doors to questions.

Steve

I think your answer is the best. I have been upset even before DH died about how people cannot agree on the Bible and all the different interruptions. Right now I do feel there is a "right of self-care" and after all I have been through and DS, we are trying to use "self-directed kindness." Thank you for your answer.

 

[Gardening with Rabbits]

If it were MY dream I would thank the Lord for His assurance that all is well and that He will meet my needs. A manifestation of His love and care or you and your family.

Except the water being gone was not a dream and if I believe it is possible DH could dump the water then I would have to take it as a sign that he is letting me know he is okay. To me the actual dream was just my own rambling thoughts. If I had dreamed of something I had not talked about then I would say, wow that was from God, but I am not an expert on dreams or why we dream or any of that, but through all this I have felt love and protection from God. Thank you.

 

[Gardening with Rabbits]

I have seem many things at night most of my life along with those very clear dreams. I have had many very clear dreams from past loved ones. Just had one of many of my long gone relatives at a family party in my house.. Also dreamt of my jr. HS french teacher. That was really weird. I do know she liked me a lot. perhaps she is gone know and stopped in to say good by. My children experienced my brother talking to them at night for about a year after he passed, when they were very young. Now my 4 year old grandsons is having dreams that scare him. However I have never had any physical work being done from the other side. It sure seems like a visit from the other side. Just enjoy it as fact and forget about proving or disproving it. Ask him to mow the lawn.

I have lost both parents, but never had dreams or anything unusual happen. Only thing odd after my mother died was a feeling the foot of the bed moved like a cat jumped on it and laid down, but nothing was there. I looked that up and a lot of people have that feeling. Some say it feels like somebody sat down, but to me like a cat jumped on the bed. I did tell DS, I should say aloud, the lawn needs mowed. lol

 

[Gardening with Rabbits]

First go rearange your bedroom, change is a good thing. I rearange my furniture every time i get bored. If you going to do that run to home depot get a gallon of paint and rollers. Don't worry about doing a profession job. A new paint job makes thing fresh and clean. I have been seeing a sleep specialist for past 15 years. I now sleep 1 to 3 hours a night and have vied dreams, a lot of times the dreams do happen. Even people working in sleep labs know very little about our brains and sleep. I use to sleep walk, I would wake up in strange places of my house. Things like chores would be done, living alone I knew I had to have done them in my sleep. When my business partner died a Jewish client told me when a person dies he stays around for set time ( I forgot how many months) to make sure love ones ok, then they go to heaven. I can believe this my parnter called me twice and his sister once after dyeing. His name and number showed on caller ID

DS and I are buying things for Christmas for the house like paint and curtains. I do not see me sleep walking, DS is more likely. I have a million blankets and sheets, almost have to fight my way out of bed. I have heard of phones ringing and things like that. I just have never had it happen to me, so I am asking to hear what people say. What your Jewish client said might be something I have read in the missing books of the Bible, 2 Esdras, and I will just let that go. Way to deep to explain or understand. Thank you for your answer and I do agree about the change and rearranging the furniture.

 

[Smart Red]

There have been things like this that happen from time to time. For myself, after Spouse passed son washed the patio door to remove Dad's nose prints. I suspect Clayton got to be a poor judge of distance and often bumped his nose on the glass. A couple of weeks later son brought a nose print on the glass to my attention. It was too high for the grands and too low for the son. Just where Clayton would have left one.

A friend with a restaurant related this story after her father died. He had promised for quite a while that he would get the heat into the woman's bathroom to work. There was no apparent reason for no heat, but the room was uncomfortably cold during the cooler months.

On the morning after her father passed, the heat in the woman's bathroom was blowing fast and loud. It continued to send heat into the bathroom for about two weeks when the room again lost heat as mysteriously as it had started.

Since her father had been ill for months before his death, he couldn't have
repaired it before his passing. She asserted that her dad had kept his promise and gotten it to work after he'd died.

 

[Gardening with Rabbits]

Just because his physical body is gone ....... he is still there with you and looking after you.

To me this seems right. The pastor of our church now and then talks about somebody who has died and will say they don't know and don't care. He makes it seem like they are all having a party up there, which really upset DD, who said she wants her dad to be watching out for her and thinking of her. If we can still think like ourselves and know who we are and who our family is then no way can you just forget them. The end of time has not come yet and people are still suffering, dying and being born.

 

[Smart Red]

After the death of my father I had a dream. In it there was a mass of people in heaven singing songs of praise to God. Way at the rear, I spotted the movement of someone jumping up and down and waving as if to be seen over the crowd. It was my father -- way at the back since he'd just gotten there -- but he wanted me to know he was there, indeed.

On the other hand, my sister came back in a dream cussing me out for moving the things in her home. I had to tell her that I was there because she had died in a motorcycle accident.

 

[Gardening with Rabbits]

Maybe just buy the paint and leave it out! Rabbits I hope this makes you laugh and is not offensive.

Not offensive at all and I told DS that I should say the water is dumped, but the leaves need raked. We did not go to church Sunday. DS woke up tired, his back hurting. He had worked on the car with DB all day Saturday and Sunday was DB's birthday, so we decided to skip church and we went to the store and we have discussed all these things and the fact that people believe pennies and feathers are from heaven and in the parking lot I saw a penny and laughed and he said maybe dad threw it down saying you should have gone to church and we walked a few more steps and there was another penny and we both were laughing and I said well there is your penny and you should have gone to church too. I even told DS that I can see DH up there causing trouble and complaining and saying she is NEVER going to dump that water, I got to get that water dumped and even if it was not him, I could see God sending down an angel to dump the water just to get him quiet. You have to know him to understand and I do not see him being quiet in heaven or anywhere.

 

[Gardening with Rabbits]

Just curious, GWR; did you and your DH ever discuss him trying to contact you after he passed? When he knew he wasn't going to be around for long?
I like Nyboy's and Catjac's ideas.

Well no we didn't talk about death. We both seemed to think we are in the endtimes and we would be here together. I do remember him getting really upset a year or so before he was diagnosed with cancer and I wonder if he was worried about his health and not telling me, but he was reading about heaven and searching what goes on there and he said he DID NOT WANT STREETS OF GOLD. He was serious and all HE WANTED WAS HIS FAMILY. He was mad. I remember being upset and saying it will work out alright and whatever God says will be okay and wondering why was DH doing this and about the first thing I did after he died was start reading about heaven and came up with the same thing, I have no interest in streets of gold and all I want is my family. I just have been OVER-thinking everything.

 

[Gardening with Rabbits]

There have been things like this that happen from time to time. For myself, after Spouse passed son washed the patio door to remove Dad's nose prints. I suspect Clayton got to be a poor judge of distance and often bumped his nose on the glass. A couple of weeks later son brought a nose print on the glass to my attention. It was too high for the grands and too low for the son. Just where Clayton would have left one.

A friend with a restaurant related this story after her father died. He had promised for quite a while that he would get the heat into the woman's bathroom to work. There was no apparent reason for no heat, but the room was uncomfortably cold during the cooler months.

On the morning after her father passed, the heat in the woman's bathroom was blowing fast and loud. It continued to send heat into the bathroom for about two weeks when the room again lost heat as mysteriously as it had started.

Since her father had been ill for months before his death, he couldn't have
repaired it before his passing. She asserted that her dad had kept his promise and gotten it to work after he'd died.

So many things we just do not understand and I wonder if we have excuse because even Jesus in the Bible said HAVEN'T YOU READ and I think we are to understand more than we do.