My junior grandson says he can't always associate with most of his sports friends because of a "culture of " partying and drinking among them. That's why he started helping younger students at his school. He's making a 6:00 am route to pick up HS students -- too young to drive -- and taking them to the school gym for workouts each day. Then he takes every one home and gets ready for school. He is becoming the idol of up-and-coming football and basketball players at his school for his interest in helping them.