Thank you for the thoughts and prayers. Things are getting better. Lot of trials and frustrations seems like if there's an exception or it could happen it does.
Biggest thing is the shifting demands. The finding someone to watch kids so we can get to a Dr apt etc. trying to keep tabs and track of everything and figuring out the best way to do things. What used to be a simple trip to the store now involves packing kids to go to the store. Trying to be more strategic and. Manage things more than "oh I'll just run and get _____".
It's getting there just not as fast as first thought.