Beekissed
Garden Master
That said, when my daughters are burning through dishes when they have friends over, I definitely make them put the dishes in the washer.
You could maybe halt the use of so many dishes by making them do all the dishes by hand. When my teen sons were burning through the homemade bread, I made it a rule that whoever ate the most bread that week had to make the next batch of bread. They all got quite proficient at making bread....and my bread was used at a more judicious rate.