so lucky
Garden Master
Red, I can only imagine how panicked you must have been when you realized Spouse was gone. So glad things turned out OK, but you are wise to take action now. Glad you are feeling better, too!
If I was stuck in a nursing home in a wheelchair, I'd want to be dead too.I am glad you are well. You sound like me, think you are tough and your medical issues are not that important, which is not good. We are going to need all our strength to take care of our spouses. It is amazing how fast people can disappear. You hear of kids, but when it was cold here a few months ago, an elderly man IN A WHEELCHAIR got out of the nursing home and they could not find him. That amazed me. Why not search dogs. They found him in a residual backyard dead in his wheelchair. Actually, the homeowner found him, not the police.