Smart Red
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I agree, your nephew probably is a slob. He's using a stereotype for your behavior because it's easier then cleaning up after himself. I'm guessing that a survey would find the same proportion of slobs that are gay as there are in the general population.My nephew once looked me in the eye and said I had a unrealistic expectations for clean, because I was a gay man LOL I replied no your a slob.
Expectations for clean are the result of what you lived as a child, of wanting better then you had, or not. My BFF1's boys are both neat with everything in its place. The older is partly the result of 8 years in the Marines, the younger, both his mother's influence and having been married to a total slob for 6 years.
Me? Somewhere in between.