thistlebloom
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Dh and I have 7 "adopted" grandkids. Maybe 9 if you count the brand new neighbors on our east side with an 8 week old daughter and 2 year old son.
The 2 year old calls dh "tractorMAN!" because he got to ride behind the tractor in the wagon with the other kids while dh towed them around the lawn.
It's not as heavy a responsibility as it would seem to me if they were my biological grand kids, because I realize I am ultimately dispensable, but it's still a responsibility dh and I take seriously, to try to be good examples and good listeners to them while facilitating some fun and good times.
It's quite amazing to me that we went from no kids in the neighborhood, to 9 practically overnight, and that their families are friendly and engaging.
We actually have a social life now.
I was invited to make zuke bread with one mom yesterday, then we just stayed for dinner.
We get invited to the kids birthday parties, and dance recitals and sports events, and I'm doing some remedial reading lessons with one of the girls this year. Sheesh! I don't have time for real grandkids!
The 2 year old calls dh "tractorMAN!" because he got to ride behind the tractor in the wagon with the other kids while dh towed them around the lawn.
It's not as heavy a responsibility as it would seem to me if they were my biological grand kids, because I realize I am ultimately dispensable, but it's still a responsibility dh and I take seriously, to try to be good examples and good listeners to them while facilitating some fun and good times.
It's quite amazing to me that we went from no kids in the neighborhood, to 9 practically overnight, and that their families are friendly and engaging.
We actually have a social life now.
I was invited to make zuke bread with one mom yesterday, then we just stayed for dinner.
We get invited to the kids birthday parties, and dance recitals and sports events, and I'm doing some remedial reading lessons with one of the girls this year. Sheesh! I don't have time for real grandkids!