Many things here to be thankful for. I've reached the age where I make a conscious effort to count my blessings often, but I share those thoughts with the family when we get together for Thanksgiving. We take turns hosting, the celebration was at one of our son's place this year. It was a good gathering. The family has grown, two grandchildren in college now & our married children sometimes spend time with their in-laws; so everyone may not make it for the holidays. A couple couldn't come this time. DW & I make it a point to get together with any who miss out, to make up for that lost time - life's too short.
@so lucky , sorry to hear of your son's troubles. Sad to say, such things are not an uncommon occurrence as families grow larger. We've had our share of family drama too, a couple of troublesome deadbeat dads in our case. Fortunately, our family has always been close, so we support each other strongly in trying times. It sounds like you are doing the same. I wouldn't gloss over such a situation as your son is going through... that kind of hurt runs deep. For what its worth, my thoughts & prayers are with you & your son.