Cat, I am so sorry. I pray that your brother pass quietly, without pain, in the loving company of his family. I pray that he is welcomed to the loving arms of his Savior and lives on forever and ever. I pray that other members of your family that have already passed be there to welcome him and ease his anguish at leaving his earthly home. May his journey from this world to everlasting life be a joyous occasion.
With Love,
Amen
It is difficult to find the words that will bring solace. Your brother has a big loving family. Such happiness is not for everyone. And I wish for you, that his departure was with the least suffering.
The suffering is not forever. A loss - this is not a punishment, but a part of life.
Help , God, the sick Andy! To console, support, and strengthen, to alleviate the suffering! Take him for eternal life.
Help , God, his family!