You have to get the place to the point that Dew can handle most of what's left. I know I'd find it tough to be there working alone with my DH away working so much.
Dew, I'm an expert at living in half finished properties and making do. Do what you can and don't worry about what you can't. It will get done. "Anything worth having is worth waiting for" and all that. The end result will be well worth all your effort!
Maybe we can be moved in by my birthday. That would be awesome!