... DS does not like kidney beans so we use red beans and chili beans. We have cornbread with it. Sometimes no onion.
interesting comment there about beans as red beans and chili beans are just small kidney beans, but those are a different flavor and sometimes texture than the larger commonly used dark or light red kidney beans. i've always loved kidney beans for the unique flavor they do have, i almost think of it as more like a red pepper taste. does DS like red peppers at all? or hot peppers? it's a different taste for sure, but i love it. when i shell out freshly grown large kidney beans before they've dried down all the way that small is right there too and i really enjoy it.
the whole recipe reads ok to me, and i would enjoy eating it, but it is not what i would go out of my way to make. i don't want soup and i want a lot more chili flavor - a single cup of chili powder would be about 3-5 cups too little. i have to avoid black pepper. onions at least a dozen, green peppers or red peppers, celery, other spices too at times, i'm not set on any specific recipe for chili but it must have enough chili in it to begin with.

water, absolutely not. that's what tomatoes are for and i'm not dilluting the umami flavors if i can help it. perhaps a dash of mushroom flavored soy sauce (very light with this until you know your preferences as some brands are very strong while others are much lighter), mushrooms (as many as you'd like). bean sprouts. water chestnuts, bamboo shoots, sweet potatoes, etc. all quite usable if you don't mind variations. i just always advise people to go light with new things until you know you like it or not as there's a big waste if you put something in and then end up ruining a whole pot that nobody will eat (i'm the family dog, i'll eat about anything

- even mistakes).
it is ok to not like spicy foods are a lot of different spices, but then i'd call it something different. my brother makes something he calls campfire stew which is basically a can of vegetable soup and some fried hamburger. works for him.

i'd eat it too. i like those things. just that when i want chili i do want spices and most importantly i want chili. it doesn't have to be super hot capsaicin wise. just a little heat is fine with me, but i'd rather have some than none.
haha, i'm running on here ain't i? haha... procrastination from doing something else.

plus i do enjoy cooking and eating.