I see her point but to me that rainbow flower will always mean Nyboy. Whatever decision you make, I know it will be the right one, respecting her wishes. Who knew it would apply to Sumi?
She called herself "Sumatra" on one contact, anyway.
That island was not the one she lived on. Wikipedia says that "The word itself is from Sanskrit "Samudra", (समुद्र), meaning 'gathering together of waters, sea or ocean.'"
Steve
and, @Nifty should feel free to delete this, if he wishes
Thinking of sumi's family (and Ny's family) at this time of year, and just wanted to say I know they're both dearly missed in the online community as well. Thanks sumi for all you did to help out all the sister sites.