it's not a time when you want your phone to go out of commission, but welcome to this morning. Mom picks up the phone to call someone and there's all sorts of noise on the line and it isn't working right. so she starts banging it on the counter (like that's going to help?!) *sigh* i try a few things and switch out another phone to see if it is the phone or the line, but now it could be either as what could have been a working phone is damaged. thanks Mom for making things more complicated unneccesarily...
so we're going to be shopping for a cell phone. not that i want one, but that is just how it has been heading with our landline getting more worse and needing more service calls and after a service call it may last for a few weeks or a few months or half a year, but now it only lasted a few weeks and Mom is fed up. i'd have chucked the whole thing years ago.
since she's been opposed to this for eons and i don't care i haven't spent any time researching anything but now it all comes up at once and must be dealt with immediately (as usual

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i was able to get a note to my sister and brother about the phone being out but i don't know if my other brother saw the message or not. we'll see him tomorrow anyways and i'll talk to my Dad at some point too.
a few people have somehow managed to call us and leave messages on the answering machine but they are so garbled i can't tell what they are saying or call them back, but i know who they were. sent an e-mail to one of them since i knew that but i don't know if they'll see the message. the other we'll have to call back somehow eventually.
in sad news we lost Grandma last week. the person we've called Grandma for many years. the older couple who were neighbors to my brother when they first moved that ways. my niece and nephew were both close to them along with my brother and my sister in law. Grandma did not die of the virus. at 96 i think she wasn't really expecting to live a lot longer, but her husband of the same age had passed away a few months ago (we considered him Grandpa too) and you know that is a hard thing to survive. both of them are going to be missed by all of us. i was told by her to take care of Mom which i've been doing as best i can all along. i'm glad my brother and SIL were able to see her and talk to her before she died. i only saw her recently on TG day when we dropped a bag of baked goodies off at her place and she was sitting in her chair and talking to a few people so i said hello and hoped they'd have a nice TG and was back out the door. i had my mask on and did not want to linger anyways. a few weeks later she had issues that put her in the hospital and they said there wasn't much to do about it - they sent her home so she was able get her family together and to say good bye. RIP Grandma, already miss you.