Dirtmechanic
Garden Addicted
They’re under grow lights 14 hours in a room ~70 degrees
fyi: my pepper seedlings are doing the same thing as the tomatoes. I have sugar snap peas in the same conditions that are doing great, as are my broccoli and cabbage seeds.
So...its a temperature thing according to your own words and what your plants are indicating. The plants you have that are cool season tell us why the hot season plants are struggling. Perhaps separating them and intensifying the toms and pepper environment to 80f will improve them markedly, but then the cooler season veggies may begin to balk.