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Beekissed
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I agree...I didn't know just how important grandparents were to a child until I had my own and saw how much they needed their grandparents, then I remembered the many incredible memories of my own grandparents that formed who I was in this life.
Now I just want to be a part of forming who she is too and I think kids need that older, more patient perspective in their lives that parents are often to busy to give.
Grands are more apt to establish routines and kids crave those, it gives them a feeling of security when things happen the same time and way each day at certain times of the day~morning and evening routines are especially important. How a kid wakes up and how they go to bed each night can really make a huge difference in how each day goes for them.
Grands also have more life experience, so handle things a little differently, are more apt to teach as they have more time to do so and also tend to see the childhood mishaps like poopy pants as something funny and charming, even nostalgic, whereas many parents see it merely as an annoyance and something else to deal with.
I've found I absolutely LOVE being a grandma...I guess I never really thought about this time in my life in past years, as I was always too busy just working and raising my own three boys, as a single parent. I wasn't giving much thought to being a grandma back then. I guess I couldn't imagine it, but this is just great! That little girl and her little sister are turning out to be the funnest part about growing old.
Now I just want to be a part of forming who she is too and I think kids need that older, more patient perspective in their lives that parents are often to busy to give.
Grands are more apt to establish routines and kids crave those, it gives them a feeling of security when things happen the same time and way each day at certain times of the day~morning and evening routines are especially important. How a kid wakes up and how they go to bed each night can really make a huge difference in how each day goes for them.
Grands also have more life experience, so handle things a little differently, are more apt to teach as they have more time to do so and also tend to see the childhood mishaps like poopy pants as something funny and charming, even nostalgic, whereas many parents see it merely as an annoyance and something else to deal with.
I've found I absolutely LOVE being a grandma...I guess I never really thought about this time in my life in past years, as I was always too busy just working and raising my own three boys, as a single parent. I wasn't giving much thought to being a grandma back then. I guess I couldn't imagine it, but this is just great! That little girl and her little sister are turning out to be the funnest part about growing old.