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Well, I finally thought of something and it was about 10 days ago that I returned that book to the library . . .

Fred's post on time travel made me realize that I feel as tho' the future belongs to someone else. It would be wonderful to have little blame for how things turn out - trying not to mess it up for them.

There was a book I checked out of the library a few weeks ago, Countdown by Alan Weisman. I was a little disappointed that it wasn't very scientific and somewhat negative. The anticipated part, for me, was his interviews with Japanese economists. Turns out, there was really only one and he was somewhat critical of his country's most recent turns.

Japan has been losing population and that is what Countdown is suggesting - bring the population down to sustainable levels. I decided that I'd just give the book a quick look but the idea that Humanity and the Earth would be fine if our population was 1/2 of its current level didn't seem to be too soundly based on science. Nevertheless, it made some sense to me.

The trend doesn't seem all that impossible. Anytime a society has given women much power over their lives or the lives of their families, the birth rate drops and continues dropping. Maintaining some level of opportunity and prosperity seems generally to make more sense to women than men. Never ending growth, boom times and general degrading of the natural environment seem to be the only things that sustains the current economic tack for men. Funny how we end up with less opportunity and more winner-take-all under that scenario.

So, how miserable are the Japanese now that their population growth (and economic growth, for that matter) has slowed. Well, it doesn't seem to be bothering them much. The recent tsunami and nuclear plant meltdown seems to have prompted some of the old guard to rev up their "growth" plans. The economist pointed to the rebuilding of their fishing ports. It will take them 20 years to return to pre-tsunami conditions and by that time they will have 25% fewer people in the fishing industry. Make any sense? Only if they open the immigration gates to people from other parts of the world. Or, get Japanese women to hurry up and have a lot more kids.

The same slowing of population growth is taking place in western Europe. In the poorer nations of the world, who in their right minds would suggest that they should have larger families and more mouths to feed. Meanwhile, most of the 1st world population growth slows to replacement numbers and below. That looks to me more like the Countdown that Mr. Weisman is hoping for and every bit as likely as an apocalyptic future.

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Ya made me think of that steve miller tune about

time keeps on slipping slipping slipping
into the future
 

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Weelll, you can click this guy and watch an eagle steal his camera and take a selfie, &/or



you can click this little kid who owns some of that future and who Steve wants fed!



Steve
 

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A few weeks ago the Chinese overlords declared that their former policy of only one child is out and now 2 is ideal . :idunno
 

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Bob, Mr. Weisman talked about that policy. He referred to it as "draconian." That's a word I like to use also. Reminds me of fire falling from the sky . . .

It is only part of the story, the birthing of a 2nd child was only allowed for a parent (I guess either) who was an only child, his or herself. Now, someone who has a sibling may now be a parent of 2 children. The asterisk on that was that Chinese "onlies" are often not opting to have a 2nd child anyway.

But, if you think about it -- if every married couple had 2 children (& not every person can parent a child), the population would still fall over time. Not everyone would choose to marry. Some folks would die before reaching an age to become parents. Downward trend to the population would continue. It just will take a little more time.

Worldwide, we are caught up in growing population numbers because of the large families of earlier generations. I guess there's quite a slowing of the world's growth rate, anyway. But, once people are born - we can hope they are around for a good long time, happy & healthy.

Steve
 

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For me it's pretty simple:

Make sure that the people you love know it. Even if you don't see them often they should know it. Nothing worse than having the last thing you say to be something you wish you could take back.

Do something you love. Even if it doesn't pay the bills at least have something your passionate about and enjoy it. A hobby, or something that you share or take part in. Otherwise it's just another job.

Stop judging. Don't let that person have control over you by eliciting a reaction from you. Besides you don't know their story. Instead of laughing at them maybe it's what they have available to them? Or maybe it's what works for them? Why do you seek pleasure at the expense of others pain? Why do you even care?

Spend quality time with those you care about.

Stuff is just stuff. Trends come & go. Something is always replacing something else so I don't worry about those things.

For me that's really it. It sounds simple but it's not always that easy. I saw a quote today that sums it up. At some point we'll just someone's memory. Be a good one." I wish I could remember who wrote it but that really sums it up for me.
 

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This has been especially prevalent in my thoughts lately for obvious reasons. I'm hoping that when I am gone my kids won't have the angst of thinking "why didn't mom....___________". Trying right now to make sure those memories are good, and they understand that the failings I had and will have are regretted and acknowledged by me.
 

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I don't expect to be perfect I'm FAAAAAR from it. I just hope they think of me, smile & say "He always loved to do ____ with me" or "I loved it when we would ____" or even "____ always reminds me of Dad" said with a smile.

I figure if I get that reaction when the clouds part and I get a clear view to my family from Heaven, I obviously did something right during my time here.

Well done Steve.
 

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I didn't know them as children but I remember all 4 of them as young adults, middle aged and old.

They were my Mom's younger sister and brothers.

They are gone now.

Steve
 
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